Relationship Zone: When You Meet The Right Person

I came across this beautiful relationship post today on Greennews.ng i hope you find it informative and entertaining as i did. 

We all have fears in our relationships, some more than others. Everyone has deal breaker(s): those turn-offs that prevent you from dating someone or stop you from taking a relationship to the next level. So at the end of the day, there are so many different things that determine how a relationship will turn out. However, meeting the right person cancels most if not all of these determinants because when you get to know and find the right person, you realize you don’t care about the things you thought you cared about because they’re enough for you. When you meet the right person, everything else won’t matter:

Your Meeting: Who cares about where you both met when you both are so perfect for each other? You will find that you won’t care or hesitate to tell it to anyone that wants to hear because your relationship is bigger than other people’s expectations for how a couple is supposed to be introduced to one another.

The Timing: When you meet the right person, it won’t matter that too many things are happening in your life or that you’re going through a lot emotionally. It won’t matter that you just got out of a relationship or that you’re dating other people or that you’re not interested in a relationship or that you simply don’t have time for dating at all because when that person comes along, you make time to get to know them better.

Your Past: You might have been through the worst of experiences or been unlucky in love before then. In fact, you had allowed the ghosts of your past to hunt your recent relationships. When you meet someone that is obviously special, you’re forced to reveal your state and deal with it together or you find yourself slowly letting go in the face of their love.

The Distance: Nothing can keep you both apart unless you allow it. Yes, long-distance is difficult. You wonder what the point of a relationship is if you end up alone in your bed and in your space most times. But when the special one comes along, the little things make it all okay. You both find a way to connect to each other and create a closeness that bridges the distance and you work around it until you don’t have to anymore.

When you meet the right person, all that matters is that person and the moments that are to be created and preserved with them.

-To Be Continued